Why so dark?

I love kink. I love spanking, to be spanked, roleplay, bondage. But I also love to have fun! Why is so much of the BDSM porn out there so dark and serious? Give me the bright colors, give me the fun, give me the laughter! Give me the joy as I spank your ass while you're tied up. Joke with me as you peg mine. Nothing turns me on than when me and my partner are having a good time that we can laugh about.