A Sexual Fantasy
Everyone talks about polyamory being hard - jealousy, insecurity, schedules! But you're talking to a lifelong polyamorist who has just turned monogamous, and my god it's hard. Why is no one talking about this?!
I'm in a really loving relationship and we've made the decision to be monogamous together. I know it's the right thing for us but I'm struggling to get used to my new one-lover life! I hate to say it but my body is yearning for some variety...
I’ve been thinking about ways that I can bring my old poly ways into my new mono relationship and I was reading about a term called “monogamish”. It was originally coined for couples who are mostly monogamous but allow for outside sexual experiences every once in a while. I like the sound of this but I don't want to have sex with someone new. So, what if instead of having a sexual experience with a new person, my partner became someone new…?
I don’t want to get ahead of myself but I basically think I’ve finally found the solution to monogamous relationships. I just need to work out how to pitch it... any tips?