Let's Fuck the Way We Want
A Sexual Fantasy
As a man, I rarely thought about how consent applied to me. But I still remember the first time someone asked me if it was okay before they touched me. The satisfaction of learning how to say “not that, but this” or “let’s slow down” without being afraid of ruining the moment. I want to see porn with the nuance of navigating boundaries in a loving and sexy way. The hot intensity that comes with knowing it's safe to surrender; that you will be heard when it counts and that boundaries aren’t an obstacle but an opportunity to focus on what makes someone feel good and safe.