Wet Dream, Frustrating Reality

A few years ago I was with a girl I met during a student exchange program. We went to an hotel in the city center. I was nervous because I was still a virgin. After entering the hotel room we started kissing and caressing each other and slowly started to remove each others clothes. While kissing and licking all body parts I slowly moved downwards, kissing her beautiful breasts, licking her hard nipples. While slowly continuing down, kissing her belly, I attempted to remove her slip, and she said No and moved me away. I've always been taught to stop when someone says No and so I stopped, told her that a No means No for me. She whispered "I don't know, Maybe". Confused and aroused we continue the caressing and kissing. While I attempted to remove the slip again she said No. For me this was final, and while putting my clothes back on we talked about how I was raised.

While laying in bed (frustrated and aroused as hell) and falling asleep with the girl in my arms I remember having this vivid dream where I'm sitting naked on a bed with red/maroon sheets. Looking up I spot this astonishingly beautiful woman with a smile to die for. I'm not sure in which language she spoke (my native or english). She told me I didn't do anything wrong. While she starts explaining this she moves her hands towards my erect penis and slowly starts stroking it. She continues talking about something, but I completely lose focus and can only enjoy the sensations. After some time I can no longer hold and cum. At the same time I wake up with the girl still in my arms asleep (or acting that way). Only the cum stain in my underwear proved something had happened.