Outercourse

I have a question... Why do people always presume that sex equals penetration? As someone with vulvodynia, I know how hot non-penetrative sex can be, but where is it in porn? I want to see less thrusting of a p into a v and more outercourse. Please show me an ode to the hotness of non-penetrative sex! It doesn't have to be something that you do when you're a horny teenager or when you can't have penetration. Spending time and energy on enjoying the many other beautiful parts of sex can make the whole sexual experience more enjoyable and incredibly hot!