Swinging Pilots

So my boyfriend flies jets for the airforce for a living. He comes home all hot and bothered in his flight suit and I find him absolutely irresistible. We have pretty hot sex as it is, but we can't help talk about what it would be like to try swinging. One of the guys in his flight squadron is extremely attractive, as is his wife, and we talk about how amazing and exciting it would be to try swinging with them sometime. The thing is, I do not just want to have sex with the other male, I want to have sex with his wife while watching my boyfriend have sex with his friend. I know the fantasy will not play out in real life, but I get so excited dreaming about it.