EVERY GIRL HAS HER WET DREAM

A Sexual Fantasy

— By Molly_Dae

In our modern world we supposedly educate our adolescents on 'safe sex' and what is 'normal' but in reality, what really is 'normal'? I bring you to my first example......

At school the topic of 'wet dreams' was a large part of sex education. We were told that it was a normal part of male adolescence to experience ejaculation in ones sleep and that it was nothing to be embarrassed about. All sounds well and good, but just one thing.... what about us girls?

I often would (and still do) wake in the night to a violent orgasm, look down in my half asleep state and see that I was as suspected not so much as touching myself. I often try to recount what it was that I was dreaming about. Sometimes I remember, sometimes I have no idea. Of the times that I remember, I'm often genuinely shocked at myself for having been aroused by such a thing. It can often be something that my waking mind has no interest in such as the blatantly gay mixed race man that taught my Tuesday aerobics (and whose class I blushed in ever week thereafter) to an experience with a dominant older woman long before I discovered my bisexuality. It seems nothing is off bounds whilst asleep.

Now as an open minded sexually active woman in her twenties, I relish these dreams as manifestations of my innermost fantasies. Things that initially seemed taboo upon waking such as spanking and humiliation dreams are now parts of my waking sex life to be enjoyed not embarrassed about. On the odd occasion that I still wake to a violent orgasm I find myself laughing, amazed at the sheer power of the mind and loving it.

Back to my original point I wonder. What would happen if I wasn't so unashamedly comfortable in my sexuality? What if I would have stayed stuck in the mindset of my teenage self wondering why is it only normal for guys to orgasm in the night? What is wrong with me? Does this mean that I'm a transsexual (I kid you not, I wondered!).

I'd tell myself 'no love, you're mind is just exploring your innermost sexuality and that mind is a powerful thing, enjoy!'